would a mod PLEASE euthanize this thread, I don't think it can ever be brought back to its original topic again....

... unless you mods are masochists and want to see people beating each other up more

thank you!

 

Wow, I never thought my thread would come to this....

 

Commitment isnt one of my finer points, in fact, when I do get into that "serious" part of the relationship I tend to run away with my tail between my legs. Im a wuss when it comes to that stuff, I cant see myself ever getting married or even having kids for that matter. Im only 22 I know, but Ive been a kid all my life and probably will be for the rest of it. No woman wants that out of a "man." :P

 

I used to think the same way you do right now. Now I´m married. Also, my wife has told me that one of the things she likes about me is that I´m still a kid sometimes. She likes that, because it means she can still have fun with me.

So... grow up... but don´t grow up too much. In other words, I think if you are still a kid at heart ten years down the road, women WILL like you. Remember that there is a difference between being a kid, and being immature and irresponsible (at least that´s my opinion).

So have fun, and don´t grow up... now I´m contradicting myself

 

Hmm... marriage...

I've been together with my girlfriend for 9 months now, we've also talked about marriage. I think the consensus was to wait till after school, but who knows where the next 3 years will take us.

As for acting like a "kid" and no woman wanting that in a "man..." I act like a kid alot, but only when it's time to joke around. She enjoys the way I am and doesn't want to change anything. If you find someone who appreciates you for who you are then I think you're set.

Anyhow, enough about me, good luck with your decision, I hope everything works out for the two of you!

 

Here's a story that you don't often hear anymore(at least in Santa Cruz):
My wife and I met in Highschool; went out for 3 years before graduating and moving in together; lived together for 5 years before marrying; now we just celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary, and to top it off, she's pregnant with our first child! (18 years later)
Pure Love

 

congrats to you and your wife