In what way did the relationship get boring?

 

No change.

Everything was expected; same 'ol, same 'ol

 

Yeah, it was kinda the same thing all the time and he never wanted to do anything different. He never argued with me or tried anything "different". It was just, well, boring. I like sweet guys, but crying on me telling me that he gave up his virginity for me; that kinda took the cake. lol


I don't like paper thin guys, or big muscle type guys. Personally I think the guys on wrestling are way too big for me. Semi-intelligent guys are cool too. No one likes a guy that will watch jepordy and answer only one question right, usually the one about a cartoon character. lol

 

super nice = LOSER
bad boy = LOSER

guys, we gotta find that middle ground....

well, i found it. i just gotta remember to replace the batteries in my psycho radar...

 

I don't care how good looking a girl is, if she is fiery and high strung forget it!! Not unless it's a physical thing. I can't handle some one who is constantly on the go about some thing! It may work out at first, but eventually bring you down! Another turn off is a girl who is hot and knows it. This isn't to be confused with confidence, but it is conceitedness! And I don't care who you are male or female, no one is "Too good for you!" The question is are they good enough for YOU!

MisterT

 

but ur a honey...

 

i hear you loud and clear!

i thought it was just me (sniff,sniff) but now i know the real deal is unfortunatley...
...real.

what makes it worse, is that some of these plowable broads could be dimepieces if they thought before the gave out thier number. thats why i just play the wall, hook up the ride, kill time on xbox live, read my books, and hook up w/ a chubby broad once every 2 month.

i feel your pain and know it all too well!

and to answer your question, some women just like to feel sorry for themselves and be miserable, so what better way to do so them throw away that tight tummy, hard chest, and sugary booty at some living abortion with a roca t-shirt 3 sizes too big and a truck rope w/ a 9 milli medallion. but look at the bright side, thier kids aint yours, u got more money for drinks for self, and you drive a mazda...

...pretty good shape if you ask me.

 

lol@ chubby broad. Hey, fat chicks need lovin too. AND NOOOO I'M NOT SAYING I'M FAT.

 

Maybe it's just me, but some of you guys seem kinda bitter.
We're not all that bad ya know. Some girls can be REALLY aweful, but so are some guys. There are also psyco men...ie the ex "idiot" that went to jail and tried to kill me. (of course I can laugh about this NOW...but wasnt funny at the time when he used to stalk the hell outta me). There are alot of people in bad situations, but as you get older, you learn to stay away from certain "types". Some people just need to learn after a few dumb ones. The ones that DON'T learn need medication or serious counceling from Mr. Macky. heeh heeh

 

I agree that it works both ways. But I do have a question since you are here. Okay, this girl at work sees a doctor she really likes and tells me she can only look down because she is so nervous. The guy knows that she likes her and tries to initiate a conversation and she blows him off. I am thinking if it was me, I would be thinking what is with her? She doesn't even want to reply to me! When it is the opposite.

Lastly, girls act different than guys. I walk by a girl look at her in the eyes and smile if I find her attractive, whereas girls are more discrete about liking a guy (in most cases). Then I am with a girl I am told, "That girl who just passed us was checking you out." I am totally oblivious to the whole thing. I am thinking no way, I saw no inkling of interest, but some how girls know these things! I guess that is why we men are from Mars and you girls are from Venus.

MisterT

 

That is terrible!! Funny though! I shouldn't can't resist, but have to

MisterT

 

Yeah I really am bitter about it all, it can't be helped though. When you pour your heart out for somebody, treat them the best you know how, and then end up heartbroken because you were too nice; its easy to become bitter. Sure maybee I got boring to her but its not like she ever said anything about it or tried to get me to liven/change things up a bit. One day everything appears to be going great still and then, WHAM. She just hits me with it. She said she still loves me, and cares the world about me. She said she was the happiest shes ever been when she was with me. Thats what makes me bitter, she said she was happy yet she ended it. But what makes it even worse is that the guy she's "with" now she has always proclaimed that they are just "friends" and they are not together. I get another story from everyone else. Who do I believe? Im accepting her story untill she says otherwise, but on the other side; why would everyone say that? (We work together so that also makes it that much harder, plus everyones in our buisness) Maybee you can see why I am bitter, maybee not. But like whats been said before, one bitch doesn't make them all bitches. And the same goes for guys, one ******* doesn't make them all ********.

 

I dated someone at work and they weren't even in my department. Later, I switched shifts and was about to start a new position in a different department and bumped in to her. She was so fake with the smile on her face. She asked me what I was doing there at the time because two weeks before leaving the previous dept. I went from night shift to 2nd shift. I told her what was going on and how I am going to start in a new position when she said,"Really?! I am going to be working for the same department starting the same time." I was shocked and although she works at a different facility, I see her once a month a departmental meetings. It is awkward, but she should feel awkard more so than I. Things are cool now. I don't let things get to me because it was the past, but just have to learn that it's not a good idea to date some one at the same work place (in my case), no matter how big the organization!

Don't categorize every one that way though marc. It makes it more difficult for things to work when you find the right person. Then you have walls that have to be torn down that are all around you. Just look for signs and trust your instincts. Don't let one person have total control of you that way. Even though it's over, you are letting that one experience dictate all your future relationships. That is giving her the power that you have to take back! Fight the power bro!

MisterT

 

i'm just ur humble bitch, sweetie.

 

I understand exactly where your coming from there. I never really dated through high school (I was just real shy around girls, always have been) so she was my first girlfriend. And the attitude Ive had for the past few weeks is; "How can I trust another girl again?" I realize now that that is the wrong attitude to have and will get me nowhere and end up hurting me even more. Its just all new to me and has been a learning experience. Thanks for your words of encouragement.

On a side note; she is only 19, Im 23 (we were 18 and 22 when we started dating and she was still in high school). The age difference never really bothered me until now. I feel that maybee I should not have let myself develop such deep feelings for someone so young and not sure what they want in life yet. But you can't help who you fall in love with. Sometimes things happen for a reason.....

This is a great thread, its helped my understand everything much better! Thanks everyone!