how do u know if a girl
March-22nd-2005, 12:45 PM
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how do u know if a girl
how do u know if a girl is interested in you and what signs should i look for. also what is a good way to ask a girl out on a date. should u ask for her number first and then get to know her then later ask her to go out on a date or should u ask to go out on a date at the same time getting her number. THe reason why i ask is because there is a girl at work that i am interested in and that i have caught staring at me multiple time and im wondering if that could be a sign. i have been out of the dating scene for a while recently just ended a 3 yr realtionship. so i really need help. thanks.
March-22nd-2005, 01:04 PM
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Dating someone from work is usaully a bad thing. Everybody seems to talk and things go around and it just ends up a big problem. But if you still decide to go for it, get to know her better first. Try going to lunch a couple of times with her and co-workers. That way you can find out more about her and you have not lost anything.
March-22nd-2005, 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted by 99protege24
how do u know if a girl is interested in you and what signs should i look for. also what is a good way to ask a girl out on a date. should u ask for her number first and then get to know her then later ask her to go out on a date or should u ask to go out on a date at the same time getting her number. THe reason why i ask is because there is a girl at work that i am interested in and that i have caught staring at me multiple time and im wondering if that could be a sign. i have been out of the dating scene for a while recently just ended a 3 yr realtionship. so i really need help. thanks.
Seriously.
How old are you?
No offense...but are you asking us to TELL you if she's interested in you? I'd say yes...she probably is. Unless of course you had a huge zit or something and she kept on staring at that....???
Bro...if you wanna be a 'pimp' like 50cent...just go up to her and tell her what's up...tell her you want her 'digits'....and that you want to take her back to the 'Candy Shop'....so she can lick your lollipop (I really hate that song btw).
Now.....since YOU DON'T wanna do that....we'll do it my way. The Phil the Thrill / The Jamaican Sensation way. You find out what car she drives and you write her a little note just like "Hi I've noticed you around and I think you're cute/hot & that we've made eye contact etc."(don't include your name)...let her sweat it out...if she's truly diggin' you she have an idea of who it is...she'll know it's you and she'll approach YOU! Now, if she doesn't...that's when you write her a few more and leave 'em where she can find 'em (desk/locker/etc.). Do the secret admirer technique....chics dig that. Maybe a single flower (note I DID NOT say rose)...you don't know her yet....some petals in the note...*have had good results there*. I guess it's just second nature to me...never be intimidated by chics....they WANT guys to talk to them...the hotter girls never get talked to because us as guys are immediately taken aback because of stereotypical stuff we see in movies etc.....don't be scared man...approach her and do your thing!!!
-Dr. Phil *the thrill*
Now go get them
March-22nd-2005, 02:08 PM
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If twiddling isn't a word, it should be.
And pro5... Dating someone from work isn't neccessarily bad. It depends on your job. If it's your career and you care about it, then yes it's usually the wrong answer. If it's your after school job then dating a girl that works there rocks the farm! You can take her in the back room and "talk" while on the clock. Intra-office relationships are also good for drama. It gives everyone something to do instead of work.
And pro5... Dating someone from work isn't neccessarily bad. It depends on your job. If it's your career and you care about it, then yes it's usually the wrong answer. If it's your after school job then dating a girl that works there rocks the farm! You can take her in the back room and "talk" while on the clock. Intra-office relationships are also good for drama. It gives everyone something to do instead of work.
March-22nd-2005, 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted by dudeondacouch
chicks love this
Pro5..pick up on the vibe we are giving you bro!
Can I please have a lady post on this thread?
Karen & Stef (Phantom & Sketch)...where ya at laidies!!?
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March-22nd-2005, 04:01 PM
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How about talking with her first, to see if your personalities are at all compatible? If you laugh at eachother's jokes and share some similar interests and values, then it's pretty easy. Just ask her if she would like to do something low key after work, like get a coffee from the local Starbucks or whatever. If you ask her on a big, elaborate date without knowing her that well, she is bound to feel uncomfortable (and both of you won't have fun). Do the big "dinner on the town" thing after you have given her the chance to become infatuated with you. Same thing with asking her over to watch a movie at your place, etc. My advice is to be low key, talk to her like an aquaintance (which is what you are), and be direct. Notes are for people that don't have the guts to be personable. Oh, and don't have any expectations. After all, when you meet a cool guy you don't ask him to be your best friend right away, right? So, why would you meet a girl and expect her to suddenly be your girl friend?
March-22nd-2005, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted by juddz
How about talking with her first, to see if your personalities are at all compatible? If you laugh at eachother's jokes and share some similar interests and values, then it's pretty easy. Just ask her if she would like to do something low key after work, like get a coffee from the local Starbucks or whatever. If you ask her on a big, elaborate date without knowing her that well, she is bound to feel uncomfortable (and both of you won't have fun). Do the big "dinner on the town" thing after you have given her the chance to become infatuated with you. Same thing with asking her over to watch a movie at your place, etc. My advice is to be low key, talk to her like an aquaintance (which is what you are), and be direct. Notes are for people that don't have the guts to be personable. Oh, and don't have any expectations. After all, when you meet a cool guy you don't ask him to be your best friend right away, right? So, why would you meet a girl and expect her to suddenly be your girl friend?
Ha ha...you ***** wrinkle! The note is just to get her attention....either way works none-the-less. I still mentioned that you'd want to approach the chic. Different stroke fer' different folks I guess....And yes...don't expect to jump right in to those jeans or "....fingerbang Mary Jane Rotten Crotch...."-Full Metal Jacket fans...you know where it's at!
Relationships take time...don't just go for a rebound...if you want that, go for a drunk chic at the bar/club!! Remember...you DO ACTUALLY work w/this chic.
Good luck bro! Keep us informed!