Roach220

OK I think I have one of the worst girl problems right now here it is. I've began to talk to and hangout with this girl And i've really began to like her and well heres where the problem comes it shes with someone and worse then that shes with one of my closes friends I dont know what to do on one hand this girl is one of the coolest funniest easy to get alone with and ******* hot but I dont want to **** over my friend. neather one knows this but damn I should of known this would happen the way my life goes.well maybe someday i will find someone else like her.

TaiMaiShu

I give it like 24 hours, and you'll get over it. Just check out all the other hot chicks and you'll be like, wow, what was that chicks name again?
Right now I'm kinda messing with this trick, shes outta my league, and she's flawless, but I don't get too excited in case things don't go too well. see what im sayn?

Roach220

yea well its not something that just all of a sudden happen he been with her yor like 2 years now and It was a slow thing i always thought she was hot but here in the last few months we been talking hanging out and she is a really cool person and I know I wont do anything cause I dont want to screw over my friend but damn I had to get it off my chest..

TheGreat1x2002

jsut play it cool man. shes taken and u got to move on. sorry to hear that man. but theres always another. good luck

marc93lx

Yeah, don't be a bastard. Respect the fact that she has a boyfriend. Who knows it may work its way out in the future.

skr33t_rac3r

just call her up one nite and stat talking to her after a while she tell u stuff u wanna here then ur in. or just do wut every guy does and {B}get her drunk!{/B}

MisterT

The way I look at it, is that if a girl is attractive whether or not taken, she most likely has girl friends who can introduce me to, so no matter what, you have it good with her. She may tell an even hotter chick that there's this guy who I have been friends with for the past two years and is really cool...And the rest is history. I know it is frustrating. Every one I work with has a bf or gf. The few single girls are attracted to my coworkers who have gf's so I get frustrated. it used to bother me. Even in hs, I had a friend who always got in with the chicks, and there I was single and still looking. The truth is, is that when you are least expecting it, some thing will happen. You have to expose yourself in that you go out a lot to events (even if you feel uncomfortable going to). Last week I went to a coworker's cook out. I didn't know any one except her and 75-100 people showed up. I work in a hospital, so most of them were residents, primarily females and though I felt a little out of place since I didn't know every one like they knew each other, I was in heaven. Some of the hottest and smartest looking girls were every where!!! I just enjoyed myself and hope that some one will ask my coworker who I am. If not, no biggy, but if they do, look out!

Esquire

I've got a kinda similar problem ... I'm really really interested in my best friends sister, and she's got her eye on me. One more problem, this best friend is a girl, who has shown interest in hooking up with me for a while now. I've told her nothing is gonna happen and that I'm attracted to her sister but she can't get it into her head.

I feel like an ******* for even considering dating her sister, but we just have a lot in common and I can't help it. If me and the sister do hook up, my best friend and her whole family are going to be pretty pissed off. I don't want things to get all hostile, but I haven't been this interested in a girl for a few years. Life is a bitch.

onehawaiian

this one is easy.
don't backstab ur friend.

Roach220

Of course I would never Backstab him I just had to get this off my chest. Its kinda funny we are all really close and are really open just the other day we all went swimming together and it ended up being skinny dipping there was like 5 or 6 nude people in a pool and it didn't matter. Its kinda wierd I have never been this open around people before this group I am hanging around with lately Is just awsome no one says anything about anyone else or cares what you look like Its like being friends with a bunch of hippies its just really cool. And I think it is not just me I think anyone would be this way as long they had the same respect for others as I do. Anyways thank you all for the advice I really need to talk to someone..




Oh and no it was before I saw her nude that I started felling this way..

TheGreat1x2002

man MisterT ur right dude. jsut dont try so hard. and soon enough that girl will come. in hs i didnt have many girls. but soon enough when i got to college i got plenty. but i like only one shes everything i want in a girl. and im goin to stick to her. so yea dont trip guys. jsut be patient. play it cool.

Roach220

oh yea I know as a matter a fact the samw friend that shes with is trying hook me up with a girl he knows and from what hes said about her she seems cool just have to wait and see..

Liquid_Ag

wait til u hit college...i was sitting in my room, door closed minding my own buisness and ended up sleeping wiht a chick...it all works out

MisterT

Stay away I warn you. I had a female friend who I had no idea liked me more than just a friend. She just gave me no inclination and was kind of snooty around me. I met a girl who I ended up asking out later through the same girl. Boy was she pissed. Her friend asked if it was okay if she went out with me because she didn't want to be "stealing" me from her (even though I was oblivious to the whole thing). The thing I didn't understand is that from that point on she was a total bitch to me. She ignored more and later I found out why (because she was interested in me). Even years later, she would say hi to the girl I was dating, but ignored me entirely. I am left thinking what tha ****?! Girls are wierd that way.

THEGOLDPRO

dude you will never fully understand girls, they are all messed up in the head.