View Poll Results: What should i do about cassie?

Do her, leave her.

Dont rush, take it slow, get to know her again, make something of it.

What the fuck are you? Crazy? Get the hell away from her.

you say shes got big boobs? lemme see

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The EX is back... EEK, what to do?

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January-14th-2003, 05:34 PM

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The EX is back... EEK, what to do?

So heres the deal.... you all heard about my situation in the past with my ex-girlfriend cassie... well needless to say she broke my heart.

but things have changed alot since then. both of us are also single right now btw. But last night a friend and i spent the whole night hanging out with her. And first thing, hot damn she got alot hotter lately... ****. But she was the same girl i always liked. something still seemd to be there, and also we were more comfortable. Let alone, hell, messin around like we all were was just fun. All in all, damn, i forgot why i got so pissed that i lossed her, she is a great chick, just has some problems.

so my delima here is, do i continue to hang out with her and possibly start to get to know her again.... and such. Or as some people say just back the **** off and dont go there.

Pros: Shes gorgous, some people say physical attraction means nothing, but that definately not true, got have it. Also the affection from her just rocks, its not explainable how i feel around her. and finally, really, i just want to finally get to know her (lol and i never did anything with her

.... so ya know how it goes)

Cons: She did still hurt me bad with one of my "friends". It doesnt seem like we have much to talk about, I dont even know what to say for crying out loud. It will most likely end in pain. Shes kinda like the village bicycle it seems like, everyone gets a ride. And she just doesnt seem to be trustful, and i cant tell whats true or not right now (though if i was with her more thatd probably change)

hmmm
damn

January-14th-2003, 06:16 PM

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Does she feel that same way about trying to be back with you?

Something deep in me is saying "run away", Meaning once a cheater, always a cheater.

And another say maybe there is true change of her heart.

I would proceed very slowly and cautiously, and don't get heart broken again.

READ: If it was me, I'd move on and try to never be around her again.

January-14th-2003, 08:00 PM

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christ shut up about her.

j/k

let this one be. what she and your friend did to you was crap. has she said anything about that night to you. like even a simple sorry. well you know what i think.

January-14th-2003, 08:55 PM

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If you had no heart or feelings, I'd say go for it, **** her, leave her, but I don't think that's you...

otherwise I'd be wary.....
keep your keys this time and don't let other people drive the car

In the end they're your feelings, and your decision, neither way is exactly "easier.."

January-14th-2003, 09:56 PM

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I know i shouldnt do it, and i probably wont, its just hard i guess. But, apology? nope and thatd make me content in the end...

yep if i had no heart id **** 'er and leaver 'er.... but you're also right, i couldnt do that....

Id go back for seconds

J/k, but seriously, theres no way i could do that to any girl, its just not me

January-14th-2003, 10:03 PM

UCSBgeek

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sometimes I wish I didn't have a heart

I put a lot of energy into being nice, I wish people wouldn't exploit that

sorry for hijacking your thread... hehe

January-14th-2003, 10:05 PM

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haha, nah its cool... this is exactly why i opened it

seriously though, i totally agree, everyone loves to exploit the fact that others like to be nice

agh

January-15th-2003, 07:32 AM

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Well, I didn't read your top post, but from what I remember about her she cheated on you with one of your friends or something. My most recent ex cheated on me, but I loved her so I took her back. Never do that, they don't change. Seriously. Don't waste your time on her, you'll just end up getting hurt more. Take it from me, I'm a spiteful, lonely bastard!

January-15th-2003, 07:42 AM

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don't be a dumbass. stay away from her.

January-15th-2003, 10:40 AM

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Re: The EX is back... EEK, what to do?

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Originally posted by 5SpeedP5
So heres the deal.... you all heard about my situation in the past with my ex-girlfriend cassie... well needless to say she broke my heart.

but things have changed alot since then. both of us are also single right now btw. But last night a friend and i spent the whole night hanging out with her. And first thing, hot damn she got alot hotter lately... ****. But she was the same girl i always liked. something still seemd to be there, and also we were more comfortable. Let alone, hell, messin around like we all were was just fun. All in all, damn, i forgot why i got so pissed that i lossed her, she is a great chick, just has some problems.

so my delima here is, do i continue to hang out with her and possibly start to get to know her again.... and such. Or as some people say just back the **** off and dont go there.

Pros: Shes gorgous, some people say physical attraction means nothing, but that definately not true, got have it. Also the affection from her just rocks, its not explainable how i feel around her. and finally, really, i just want to finally get to know her (lol and i never did anything with her .... so ya know how it goes)

Cons: She did still hurt me bad with one of my "friends". It doesnt seem like we have much to talk about, I dont even know what to say for crying out loud. It will most likely end in pain. Shes kinda like the village bicycle it seems like, everyone gets a ride. And she just doesnt seem to be trustful, and i cant tell whats true or not right now (though if i was with her more thatd probably change)

hmmm
damn

I say do NOT take her back. If you do she will probably think "well, well, I cheated on him and he still took me back... I guess I DO have him wrapped around my finger now".

Plus, if she cheated on you, that means she didn´t care enough for you to begin with. Also, you said she´s like the village bicycle... do you really want to be with a girl like that?

January-15th-2003, 07:19 PM

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hell ******* no

yes, i dont ever want to see her again, and thats that, for all i care, to me, she doesnt exist anymore

quite frankly after realizing a few things, she just used me... **** that ****..... i am not doing the village bicycle a favor and letting her keep me wrapped around her finger for use