Levi 123

Well I have a big problem. My wife to be is moving to a new college that is hours away and I have to make a choice. I can stay here. I could go to the same school. In a way I want to stay here but I also want to be with her too. If I go I'll have to change jobs. Where I work now won't relocate me. So I have to make a choice. I want your opinion and coments PLEASE!!!

Rio Grande

Tuff question. If you are soon to be married, I take it that you have a great deal of trust in her. If you guys can deal with not being able to see each other constantly. Then things should work out fine if you were to stay home. If you can't trust her or can't stand to be apart then it would be an issue. If you have a nickel & dime job(ie: McDonalds or something like that) getting a new job won't be difficult.

So can you trust her and stand to be apart for 4-5 days at a time?

Levi 123

I trust her, but it is hard for me to go just a few days without seeing her. I work for and information systems company.

Rio Grande

Would you be able to find a job near the college that would still be able to support you finacially?

Rusty

Easy answer. Nothing's more important than wife/family.

If your plans to wed are imminent, that's something you (and she) should be very clear and confident about before you vow exactly that and more.

Not to preach or anything, but many people obviously don't think about that before blindly jumping in these days. My wife and I have made it 20 years and hung together through plenty of harder decisions. You both have to keep that in mind throughout your marriage too. So go be with her.
Good luck.
(Mine's still a babe too.)