alright im seeing this girl and yeah shes nothing special as for as looks go, but i think shes pretty cool ****. we go to different schools. she goes to a private school right down the street from me, and i go to a public school. i have a couple freinds that go to her school too. and i know when they find out that im goin out with her theyre gonna start givin me ****. which will in turn lead to people at my school giving me ****. which isnt somthing i want to deal with right now. but i do like this girl, i dont think she is that bad looking at all. what do i do? i like her but im pretty sure im gonna get quite a bit of BS from my freinds or from people at school. i know when i do start getting **** from them, im gonna wanna knock them out, but i dont wanna lose them as freinds either.

 

tell them all to F*ck off. it's that simple.

 

Hey bro,

If ur friends are gonna give you Sh*t about dating this girls then these guys are not really that great of friends. Your good friends will tell you to go for it and will support you 100 percent b/c it's what you want. If i were you i would just go ahead and start dating her and dont worry bout what other people think, b/c they aren't dating her you are!!!

Brian

 

I totally agree!

 

Right, great advice Yoda.

 

dito!!!

IF THEY GIVE YOU **** TELL THEM ITS NONE OF THERE BUSINESS

 

well, it's true. high school is a big bowl of suck and if you let the idiocy of others stop you from doing what (or who ) you want to, you end up miserable.

i'd like to quote phillip seymour hoffman as lester bangs in "almost famous"

"you'll meet them all again on their long journey to the middle"

 

Your statements are contradictory.....


On one hand, you got friends
on the other hand, they won't support you if you go out with this chick
on the third hand, you're gonna want to knock them out if they complain
on the last hand, you will still want them as friends after they BS you

I don't know man, none of those go 'hand in hand' so I say go and get some new friends and go for that chick.

 

hold up though, why would they care if you went out with her in the first place???

I don't think that you should go for her if it happens to be your best friend's ex that he just broke up with. That's just wrong

 

Usually most of the time, the reason why they your friends will give you grief is because they are jealous of your relationship. They may act all cocky and sh&t, but really they are wondering why they are still by themselves...do not be embarrassed by other individuals...especially for your happiness now...I have fallen into that trap many a times...

Ignore the fools and tell them to go wack off to some porno mags...because this is their only true girl that will not walk away from them.

Later

 

Hey, Jordan. Do you go to Deering or Portland? I went to Portland, and even though I graduated high school many years ago, I still hate those ******* from Chevrus. They have always been Chevrus ****, and always will be (even though they do allow girls now). Man, if someone gives you **** about dating a girl from a that school, I would give them their **** right back, make them eat their ****, then make them **** the **** you just gave back to them, and make them eat it all over again. But if I were you, I would not worry about this too much. High school rivalry will always be there, and you will always have a chance to find the right girl, so don't stress it.

 

Sounds like you got a quote from moviepoopshoot.com in there. lol


What would your friends say about you? What's the reason for giving you ****? Shouldn't they be proud?

 

yeah i suppose, i mean i have to be honest with myself, i know shes not the most impressive girl, but i do like her a lot, but my "freinds" are gonna be all like, "oh why would you wanna og out with her, shes so ugly" blah blah blah but i think my repsonse is gonna be like..."ya know what, i dont really give a **** what you think, i cant go around looking for the hottest girls ever, if i want to find somone i like." or somthin like that. oh well, i guess ill just go with the flow on this one

 

You know what? Every girl I have ever liked was quiet and unpopular. Yeah my "friends" give me tons and tons of ****, but you get used to it and realize they are single and you are not. I'm glad I've done what I wanted, and right now I have an awesome girlfriend. Yeah people say she's ugly, but not to me. I've never liked a popular chick and never will. Don't let people make your decions for you!!

 

hey guys thanks for the responses, ive pretty much realized that anyone that is gonna give me **** isnt worth even getting mad about, anyway, ive got a new problem(s) with this girl, and since it related to the same girl i figure i will put it in here....first off, her ex bf apparently used to beat her, and forced her into drugs like exstacy. i preeeeeeetty much want to beat him sensless, but the word is he is a huge ***** *****, so i dunno what to do, second of all, this girl smokes cigarettes, i didnt even know this up until it accidentally came up tonight. and i want her to quit, for obvious reasons, i mean dont hate people who smoke, but i know the facts, and i dont want her to end up all messed up cos of it, so i need some ideas on what to do with that. any help at all will be much appreciated.