kmaalfiisa

this is a rant in need of immediate assistance

i own a Sanyo mm-8300 picture, video, sound capable phone

i have bought a USB cable to give me the opportunity to post pics and vids and sounds

soon as i get home i try it.. connect the usb thingy to my phone then the computer.. i get an alet saying "new hardware detected" from the computer

i go to every media software on this computer to see if i can upload any pictures or video... and nothing happens... i cannot find anything on it to help me do this..

so i was told i needed to buy software so i can do this
i went out and bought $64 worth of a pice of **** program from datapilot/susteen . universal kit. cell phone data tranfer suite.
it doesnt offer any video set up for my phone... just pictures and sound

so i set up this software in the computer.. it isnt registered by microsoft as compatable. so the computer sends me a warning that this program may damage the computer. and denies it to run fully optional.. even though it says it on the package as "Interfaces with". it doesnt even recognize my phone or the USB i bought... even the one that comes with the stupid fkn software

i need some serious *** help on where the hell i can buy straight from sprint, the software i need for my computer, i just want something simple.. where i can upload from my phone. pictures and video... and share through e-mails and whatever else
i dont feel too secure with the internet and my money. so finding it on ebay or something wont really help.

I seriously will appreshiate any help