This is what I am talking about ....
People don't pay attention...
The topic was a unisex topic.
yeah! ment for men and women .
READ THE TITLE

So spare me the :bs: ok ...
thanks
Bruce

Okay ladies, nice guy here, so what is your final answer? ;) I read the cheater thread and however entertaining it was, it was offensive to women. Also, just found out today that this woman at work is attracted to me, and I had no idea! I was always nice to her and vice versa, but nothing out of the ordinary. The suspense is killing me. I will ship you a box of Mabeline and maxipads if you let me in on some thing!:D LOL

I even talked to my coworker who likes the doc, and found out she still won't look at him. The thing is, is that we are all human, so of course it is nerve racking when talking to an attractive person you feel instant chemistry with. I always approached first dates as "The worse that could happen is that we will just become closer friends if a romance doesn't come of it." <that was until I took out some psycho who left me at the bar with a stranger and both went in to the woman's room to do whatever. I ended up leaving her there. But bad dates are far and between>


HELP A BROTHER! :bigthumb:
There are still nice guys out there!:D

MisterT

SOMETIMES dating someone you work with is a disaster waiting to happen.
Continue being yourself is what will get you that girl , IF you want her
Bruce

I know...I learned the hard way! I work for a pretty large institution, but still, you have to be careful because you never know when you bump in to that person again. Even when working in different departments.

MisterT

From a woman here....
I can only speak for myself though. Personally, I am shy....and therefore don't exhibit obvious behaviors when I 'm interested in someone.....I wish I were different, but for the most part....I'm not going to show signs or flirt unless I get some kind of sign from the guy first.
As for when you're with someone ..say at the mall....I guess it's just an art we have......subtlety.....in contrast to men that see something they like and break their necks to get better looks...and obviously stare. We women tend to do it more tactfully.....looks out of the corners of our eyes.....pretending to be looking at something else in your direction, etc.
Does that help ya out at all? ;)

Congrats! You are the first woman to respond! :p Now where should I ship all of mazdaminime's boxes to. I need a shipping address for your free prizes! ;)

I know there are shy people. It can be hard being a guy too since we are the ones asking a girl out 9 out of 10 times. :eek: it's like come on, I am on a role, make it another strike! Funny thing is, if a guy who looks awsome goes by, most women wouldn't stare at him like a piece of meat. Us guys are the opposite:D Yesterday I got busted looking at a girls rear at work. I know she had to have seen me. I was thinking, "DOH!" I didn't want her to think of me as vulgar guy with too much testosterone. I was trying to be discreet, looked up and bam there she was looking at me. I just kept my head down the rest of the way down the hall.

MisterT

Ummmm......thanks....but maybe you could donate those prizes to someone else on my behalf. Or better yet.....how about making a real donation.....to my fundraising cause.....see my site.....
www.teamintraining.org/participant/-121102


Now....as for the topic at hand.....you exactly echoed my point.....guys tend to ogle obviously while we have mastered the art of subtle glances ;)

I just said that since mazdaminimine mentioned that it would grab womens' attention. That is a good cause. I do a lot of donating here too in the community and volunteer for a local nonprofit organization (SPCA) to take care of people and animals alike!:D You seem like a good person. Maybe you could teach some others to be the same way. I'll work on my end.;)

MisterT


I'll start with Bruce....now where is he?! :p

Wow if you are right that means this girl I really like at work likes me. Cuz she only glances at me very hastily. Then she kinda smiles and looks back down. A perfect example is when I was upstairs on my break and I like to look downstairs on the registers and all the guests (I work at Target by the way) I just saw her looking all beautiful and then she looked up (somehow knewing I was up there ;) ) and looked at me straight in the eyes. As if she wasnt sneaky enough or something she felt what it looked like caught and quickly looked back down as if she was embarassed. This happened about five times. So whats the deal with her shayshay?

she wants your body nelly

You guys have to remeber that some women are just naturally friendly , so they may smile at you and glare or whatever and just be being polite or profesional (due to work) .. So be sure to take this into consideration before you jump on her back and start humping her like a crazed jackrabbit

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uhh what are you talking about Mister T, you have to remeber something we speak on this forum and chances are you and most others have never met me and I have never met others.

I am a really cool guy , but like most people I don't put up with shit .. I just really made the cheater post mainly for males and females of the forum that have been in a situation where they found out that a person they cared about , cared being the key word, has cheated on them . The element of suprise was at the Persons advantage and I wanted to know what they would do to take advantage.

I for one have been hurt many-a-time, and like most others I know the fealing. The chance to get even is seriously something that is considered when you are hurting.

I don't donate much or do a lot of free work for companies. But I have my ways that I help others in my own methods. As do many other people ..
Bruce

Man I hope she likes me. How can I find out? what do I needa do? ladies? fellas? advice on teenage dating? :rofl:

Quote:
This is what I am talking about ....
People don't pay attention...
The topic was a unisex topic.
yeah! ment for men and women .
READ THE TITLE

So spare me the ok ...
thanks
Bruce
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That's exactly what I mean about people being like this on here. Geez dude, it was just a joke, ya need to lighten up or quit posting remarks like that, it doesn't win you friends or get ya laid. Getting back to the subject before I get my ass handed to me on a protege pu pu platter.....

Like I was GOING to say... girls ARE shy by nature for the most part at least. We don't take it the wrong way if you approach us and ask us on a date or something. That is very flattering. No, we don't like people to stare at our arse or tits cause that's disrespectful, would you like it if a guy stared at your mom's or sister's ass? (that's just the way we see it) I personally like shy guys... they tend to be more of a challenge and you can bring them home to mom. Besides, pretty boys are high maintenance. And no one likes a rude ass. You seem like a nice guy, can't see why that chick DOESN'T like you. So if she looks at you, even a little bit, she probably IS interested. Call some of us old fashioned, but most girls won't go up to you and tap you on the shoulder and say "hey, you're a hottie...wanna date sometime?" lol
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Wow thanks for that mazdamine. EVen though shes 17 does she still think the same as you 'older girls?"

Bruce, I was just pickin' on you! :D I know the post you had was contraversal, but most of which were from those who posted on it and not you. I was joking around with you to mazdaminimine when I said I would start with you. LOL Hope I didn't offend you in any way. ;)

Also, that girls are naturally nice and friendly is what makes for mixed signals. It's frustrating when you are trying to figure out whether or not something is a hint. Lastly, I lost this girl's number, but I used to be one of her supervisors. She had a crush on me I know, but at the time I was living with a girl and in a serious relationship. Since then I got and then lost her number. We were to go out, but things fell through and after losing her number, she probably thinks I gave up and said fuck it. She was different though. She used to be sweet and a bit shy, but some one you could goof around with and she wouldn't look at you as a dork. Last time I talked to her, she was all jaded and stuff. She had a lot of walls to tear down if things were going to work out in to a relationship. Maybe it is good that I lost her number.:rolleyes:

MisterT